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第3册Jobs and Education原文
1. Jobs and Education
SIDE A
Today's subject is jobs and education...uh...this is some-thing that any of us can relate to.
Vivian: This is Viv.
Daisy: Yes. This is Daisy. Definitely. You know there's no substitute for a great education, I think and you know if you wanna get that job. But then again, you have to be educating yourself for the right reasons. But I guess we'll get into that a little bit later so, how about you, Bow?
Bow: Oh, yes...hey this is Bow. That is short for Boseesis. I have two things about the job and education...over to you Luke?
Luke: I think a job is an education and I think education is not something you do at school necessarily. I think it's something you do for whole life and you do it wherever you are whenever you are whatever you are.
Vivian: Well obviously, they are both related and we'll discuss more about it. Here we go.
Daisy: Well, you know school for me...um...back way way way back.., a long time ago, I really didn't enjoy it myself. I didn't have good school experience. How about you, Bow?
Bow: Oh! Are you talking about high school or college?
Daisy: High school.
Bow: Uh. High school.., um...Well I really didn't care much about studying... I like to um...have fun. And they say like in America, it was the best years of your life.
Daisy: Right.
Bow: Well they weren't really I suppose.
Daisy: No, me neither.
Bow: Because I fooled around so much I got kicked out.
Vivian: You got kicked out of Catholic school?
Bow: I didn't say Catholic school. How did you know that? Viv, Yes I did.
Daisy: For what?
Bow: Um...we have a demerit system and if you get up to 20 demerits they kick you out. And they kind of just let me keep going and I had 40. Twice the amount and they said we have to make an example of you, mister Bow and they kicked me out.
Vivian: So we're saying like what exactly were the reasons you've got demerits, you know, like what kind of a...you know...
Bow: Let me see... I got caught cheating.., once that was 5 demerits and then uh...I lit a fire in the pottery room and that was.., uh that was probably the end of it right there.., the fire thing.
Daisy: Did you do it on purpose?
Bow: Yes, I did. Because there was this piece of work that I didn't really like and I poured some glue in, and lit it on fire but then I tried to put it out with water but then it kind of dispersed all over the place and I got in trouble.
Daisy: So kind of you weren't planning to be that big but it just kind of got out of hand.
Bow: Yeh it escalated.
Daisy: How about you Luke? How was your school experiences?
Luke: Similar experience. It was more focused on... on social life, and recreational stuff than actual studying. I think that's what a lot of high school and elementary school is for people back home. The only time you really buckled down when you get to university just because you have to because the course load does increase. But I never really yeh I was never that freaked up by high school.., anything I applied myself a bit more in college and just goofed off got in trouble... I used to sell fire crackers in my locker and one time I taped one to a candle and I tried to blow it out and it exploded and I got suspended for a day for that, and an other time I threw a pie in the cafeteria across the room I got in trouble for that started a food fight.
Bow: I used to throw books out of the window of the library. That's kind of similar.
Luke: That's pretty bad.
Daisy: I, I used to steal books from library.
Luke: Yeh.
Vivian: Bad girl.
Luke: Terrible.
Daisy: How about you Viv?
Vivian: Me. I was a such a good girl in school. I used to look down upon all those girls who used to gather in bathrooms and smoke in the stalls I was always early to school.., and my PE teachers just loved me... they just ate me up. I swear. I can call them and I'd just open my mouth and they were like "Oh! Vivian, you're such a good student"...yeh...I kind of had it made in school I guess.
Daisy: Um, did you do well in school?
Vivian: Oh yeh. I was a straight A student.
Daisy: And did you graduate from high school valedictorian?
Vivian: No, not exactly. Last 6 months at school were so tragic for me and my mom. We just.., you know... I dropped out of school. I just couldn't take it any more being a perfect student.
Daisy: The pressure.., the pressure of being straight A student?
Vivian: I can it's just you wanna try different things and after just everything being handed to you on a silver platter.., you know you just wanna do something different.., and just one day I just decided well I didn't wanna go to school and I wanted to play hooky and it's just it was so much freedom all at once I guess.
Bow: That's kind of interesting. The difference between the Korean you were raised sort of in between a Korean educational system and American style of education. And one thing I noticed about the Korean education system is from the time you enter school maybe pre-school to the time maybe to the end of high school, this is the time where we goofed off basically applied ourselves a minimal amount of effort to get the grades and get things done. Whereas that whole time in Korea, in the Korean society, children are being pushed to study almost every minute they have. They go to school and they are pushed to study they go to academic institutes to study, they're often pushed by their parents to have.., to take piano lessons or gymnastic lessons or skating lessons or any kind of lessons. They never really have time to just be kids and goof off and play and stuff. And then when they hit university it's almost like they regress back into the childhood state of mind and if you seen university classrooms with the speaking and chatting during class leaning on each other and cheating and just goofing off and having a gay ol' time. It's just so contrasted to what an American university classroom would look like where everyone's attentive and conscientiously studying and giving their full attention to the professor.
Bow: Well, that's the thing if they're not then they've kicked out.
Luke: Exactly.
Vivian: I definitely agree. That's exactly how the difference in cultures is. My mother being Korean and my father being American. My father was more submissive in the relationships so he kind of let my mother take over the family. But that's exactly how she was and that's why I felt so much stress by the end of school was because from the minute you are in elementary school she was pushing me to do everything perfectly whereas everyone was just, all the other kids especially in elementary or junior high you're just having fun. I was pressured you know so much to get the grades and make the grade. Whereas after that then she always told me as soon as you are an adult as soon as you're eighteen you do whatever you want but until then okay it doesn't matter, no matter what as long as you graduate after that you can do whatever you want because then you're set you're made to go wherever. But in the American culture my dad was actually saying the opposite, enjoy now and then get into really good school and then you'll really study because that's what's gonna lead to a good job. Totally the opposite.
Daisy: Well, I think that everybody it doesn't matter what culture you are from. Everybody is in a different situation with their family. Some parents are just naturally pushy and they want their children to do well and some parents don't care. But the Korean education system and I think probably a lot of other education systems in Asia especially the Japanese one seems to be quite unique in the fact at that, you know Luke was saying there is so much pressure on these children from a young age. And I think that's absurd. Basically children are sponges and they can learn anything they can absorb but even if they learn it do they absorb it. I think that they're just learning a parrot like for want of a better word and they're just taking in this information remembering it using it in their practical way. And not being able to apply anything that they learned in theory and there's too much of it too too much to process. I don't think they're able to process it and even in universities I had a friend who was studying engineering and he had this assignment with an American professor was visiting and the American professor said go ahead and design one of those big cranes that you see on construction sites. And he thought, oh well, I'm a fourth year student I should know how to do that but he didn't. So he went to a construction site and asked the site manager how would you design one of them. And the site manager said who are you. And he said I'm a fourth year university student. And he laughed at him and said, "Go back to school, you do that when you get a real job." So there's no practical implication of anything they learn in school or university.
Vivian: And that brings us to a point where.., and this is a kind of something they've been focusing on recently is the difference in education, the methods of education that they practice overseas and Asia versus Europe or the western countries which is in the classroom situation the teachers encourage students to respond even argue with the student and debate and test out their ideas and theories in the classroom. Whereas in Asian cultures you don't wanna talk back to your teacher, you want to pretty much say everything you say is correct because once you argue or you were to say, well, "What about this?" Then that means in the culture you're talking back to the teacher. That's like that calls for reprimanding the child or the student.
Bow: I think, um, the reason why the education system in Asia is not good. It's not just because I grew up in different kind of education system but I think that if you look at it more in a general sense of child development during those years if you're giving a child stress. Of course that's going to affect them later on in their life whereas kids are just designed so to speak to, to be curious about and find out things by themselves and like ah... have fun as they grow up and develop. And I think like people that have a lot of stress when they are children it doesn't have to do with their education but maybe from divorce or, you know, some other kind of traumatic event in their lives does affect them later on socially. And I think that's where college and being more strict in the western world is a good remedy for that. That's because I think that's where people really kind of develop themselves.
Vivian: Right. I definitely agree. Because in the Korean culture or in many other Asian cultures as well after so much you know ten years of strict educational.., you know.., pressures from the parents and teachers in school you all of sudden have freedom once you go to college here in Korea. Whereas in a western culture, you're given all this freedom at a younger age to explore your ideas, go out and do things experiment with your friends and whatnot... but then in the college it's not because of the pressures you get from your parents but then you kind of mentally develop yourself and.., you want to... you have to live on your own, you have to go to school, you know, you're responsible for many things away from your parents, and so you just kind of naturally hone in on your, you know, you become an adult. You're more mature whereas here you.., you break free all of a sudden and you actually getting really immature.
Luke: I think that comes down to you're taught in the western society to think for yourself. You're taught to be independent a little bit more. You're given.., there's a little more you have more control over your free time but you are made to understand the consequences if you don't use some of that free time to study or to do these things.
Bow: Yes, exactly.
Luke: You value your free time more because of that.
Bow: And I'll give you an example of that exactly you do get a sense of freedom from your parents when you go to school in America but this is exactly right. What happened to me was that in freshman year they load you down like seven courses in architecture right? So you have a really tight schedule but the first year of college you're away from your parents so you can get away with murder. So that's what we do we drink every night on weekdays and then we like skip classes and stuff and then all of sudden you get a notice from the dean that says you're grade point average is below two. You know and if it continues this way you're gonna get kicked out so then we say to ourselves well we kind of want this freedom to continue if we get kicked out. We're gonna have to move back in with our parents. So then we kind of buckle down a little bit but as you go through college more and more you start to actually learn things that you like...like you're learning things that are interesting and when you're in elementary school and in high school learning about like Math and stuff and they are just force feeding you this stuff you don't naturally wanna learn it.
Vivian: Ye! You have curriculum that you have to take.
Daisy: Um... one of the interesting things is you know I grew up in Australia. The Australian education system is different again from the American system.
Bow: What is it actually?
Daisy: The Australian education system? (Bow: I don't know) ...well in America your focus is basically still on the three R's right? reading, writing, and arithmetic. Well it's a little bit different in Australia up until grade eleven you can...uh...you must study Math and English. The only compulsory subject when you graduate is English you don't have to do Math. And you the, choices that you have to pick you can basically design your own syllabus in high school, um, which I think is fantastic idea. And there are subjects ranging from art to metal working, wood working, photography, um music, dance, sports. It's, uh, there are so many different curriculum to choose from that anyone can basically succeed and get enough points to get into university if they want to.
Bow: But you have, have a core group of courses that you have to take too I mean you have electives a certain number of core courses that are mandatory...
Daisy: Right, but in the core groups you have English you don't ... math is not.., you know a prequisite for college unless you got you need it for the course you're gonna study in college. But the core groups would be the sciences, history and English as compulsory, that's the only one that is compulsory. But in those core groups there are several different things to study, the sciences they can range from anything from biology. I think there's natural sciences which is just a study of basically the environment and current events and things like that. But I think that is good idea, and the reason being because all children and all people are not designed for the three R's if you're just raising students and I think it definitely has things to do with economic groups, too. Children that grew up in...in privileged families have been learning to read and write even before they got into kindergarten but some kid from the ghetto is already ten paces behind a privileged child. But, he might be an extremely talented photographer or artist. I think that we need to gear our curriculum in schools around that to um, be targeted all children not one group of children. And that way everybody has an opportunity to succeed.
Vivian: Well I agree. I guess it depends upon which school that you're going to but when I went to school in Georgia it was a very restricted curriculum that we all had to attend. But then I changed to international school and it was similar to the system that you're describing now. Whereas we had to take everything which is one elective um...when I went to the international school they had a curriculum very much similar to what you have just described. You had to take certain, you had to take certain classes but they had 6-7 different what do you say? Venuses of that for example science like you mentioned you can study natural sciences, or you can study biology and whatnot. In the other schools take each one as you went up one grade but here you get to choose which one you want to study and you can choose and study it until you graduate. And the remainder of your classes...similar.., the same thing even history you could study just contemporary or current history or you know about...
Daisy: Well my major was English Literature and obviously for English Literature you don't need math. And I did very well in school and but if I had have taken math when I graduated from school. I wouldn't have got into the university that I did get into. And I also wouldn't have got the grades and that one grade in my final what is equivalent of the SATs ain the states that one grade for math would have brought me down probably an average maybe about 15 marks...
Vivian: Right. Eventually it brings down your grade point average because it's not what you are, you know talented in... honed on in.
Bow: Yeh but I think in other aspects of life you need math. People use even though like people in my university were always like I hate calculus why the hell.., why am I taking calculus. I'm never gonna use it again but it turns out.., they've proven that people use calculus everyday just not in the form of in numbers and stuff like that.
Daisy: But I took it for in eleven years, you know, it was just last year that I graduated so it wouldn't affect my grade to get into university I didn't take it. So I already had eleven years of training in it, So I think that's fair enough.
Luke: It teaches... I think it teaches students to be well rounded because that's the reality of the work force. If you're going to like if you think of the people you knew who went to college or studied something in high school with this thing in mind like I studied anthropology. I did not become an anthropologist. I didn't end up digging for bones or anything. Bow studied architecture but he didn't go on to study architecture. But the thing is we found work in different things, the thing is you the thing you study is not always the thing you end up doing.
Daisy: Sure.
Luke: But it might if you have variety of things you're learning, and you're learning how to manage your time and learning about different interests you have and stuff and if you'd just to be versatile then you have a dynamic education and then you sort of go in what ever directions you're able to take things that are offered to you.
Bow: But you say that you don't apply, you don't actually apply like the skills that you learn if you don't work as like. For example I don't work as architect but I do apply the education that I received from there like I do go to other countries and notice things architecturally that stimulate my intellect because I had the chance to learn that. I think that just because I'm not making money from what I studied. I think that's not really a big issue.
Daisy: No, I don't think it's an issue at all. And I think that is probably the main problem I have in all countries with um, tertiary education. When you go to college um... when I remember I took a class in college and the teacher asked why are you in this class. And every student answered well, I'm taking, you know, taking business, this is like part of the general requirements so I have to take it. Yeah, I wanna six figure salary or whatever and my answer was well I took it to get an education and there was another girl who had similar answer. And he said the only two who answered correctly were me and the other girl. The reason being is that education was never really put in place for you to get six figure salary. It was there to, you know, to improve or stimulate the higher faculties to make you an intelligent person to have an understanding of life and give you life experience, too.
Bow: Exactly, the point that I like to... an example that I'd like to make is at MIT they don't have the grading system like A, B, C or D or F, it's P or F, it's pass or fail. Which I think is good because it's getting you to it's gearing you toward real life, because in real life that's what it is. It's either you succeed or you don't. And it's not you kinda do you get a C you pass to the next level.., so I think actually I think all higher learning institutions should have that kind of grading system.
Luke: But if there, if they're only there to get you real job. I mean if we're saying that the reason to, to educate, educate yourself.., is to... is to get a broader understanding of the world around you and to teach you to be a better person. Then I think you should just learn like you're probably working through school anyway. You're gonna learn that if you don't cut the mustard you're not going have the job. But the shcooling thing I think, Yah, ok you weren't so strong in this.., you were strong in this.., you apply yourself it's gotta be motivated more by a personal conviction to learn that stuff. If you want to go just to get a job then you should probably just get a skill or something get a trade or something like that.
Daisy: Vocational school.
Luke: Yeh...exactly. But there's nothing wrong with that either. I mean it's useless. Yeh...
Bow: MIT is a high level vocational school.
Vivian: Sure I agree, that kind of education almost requires something like that but then when you're just about to enter um...college and you're a junior or senior don't you think that it kind of requires and I would want this for my own children, yeah, a grade, why? because you want the competition you want the competitiveness you want your child to feel like I want to beat this person next to me. I want to do better I wanna get one on top of him.
Vivian: I don't know...you know...
Luke: Maybe in business school.
Daisy: Sure I mean two different minds about that. I think that natural.,, a little bit of natural competitiveness is good but in high school um...I was the youngest of six children and my older.., older 5 brothers and sisters were incredibly successful. So even though my parents weren't pushing me I felt constantly that I had to achieve and I became like not, I'm not even just talking about grades here but an overachiever I had to do everything. I had to enter every competition. I had to come out and I had to be the school president because my sister was and my brother was. And I felt this competition all the time and eventually it worked against me. I was in Australia we call it "the tall puppy syndrome" and if you get too big they'll cut you down. And...um...I lost a lot of friends because people thought that I was a big head and because I always had to enter everything and I was doing it for some other reason to satisfy my family but in those situations I think competition can work against you.
Vivian: But many kids...students want to do it themselves because they want to. They want...I did it because I wanted to, I wanted to be on top of my class.
Bow: But there's the difference between competing with your class mates... to see if you can out do them and sort of pushing yourself and competing with yourself and seeing if you can push can strive to do these things. I think that's the big problem with the work force these days and with the education system is also that idea of competition instead of cooperation shouldn't be people be learning how to work with each other in productive ways instead of trying to outdo each other. That's... that's.., unproductive.
Vivian: But then society has changed the educational system so that you do have to compete with other kids. Why? Because there's hundred colleges out there and they're all ranked from one to one hundred and sure they're all good and as long as you get an education. Hey good to go, and you're always gonna get a job. But the fact of the matter is society um...makes this.., you know unseen kind of scale where they say what you went to your community college. I don't know I'd rather pick this dude from MIT or Harvard because he went to a yo0 know 5 star school. So, even though you may be smarter and you may have more qualifications, I'd rather pick this student from bigger named school.
Luke: You know where, you know where actually the paradox in that is that especially in America. People they are striving to get like um high salaries and whatnot and people that get into the better schools tend to get higher salaries. But what they consider to be successful is making a lot of money. And people who have.., the most millionaires in America are high school drop outs or haven't even entered high school. It was because they learned probably social skills early on. You know and they had to survive I guess somehow and I mean they're exceptional kids.
Vivian: You know the big point is... (Bow: Right. We dropped out from Harvard.) you know the big point that I always like to make is. I kind of see like two it's mainly divided into two different groups.., and it's making both point exactly but when you look at people in general. There is two different types of people. There's academically smart people and then there's people that are I guess you would put it (Daisy: common sense) right, "street wise" or whatnot but these people they are smart.., they've got what it takes but they may not further their education as far as they want to. And then there's ones in the middle that go ahead and take it to next level and they may achieve most probably. But the people that are book smart and academically successful may not it get as far as people that aren't even educated at all.
Daisy: Well, you know, I look it I think that generally schools and society is just too competitive. And parents are pushing their kids exactly what you were saying you've got into this top school because it's number one and you're not gonna have your own law practice, you're not gonna be made an associate, you're not gonna be a neurosurgeon if you don't get into this school.., and the thing is there's an enormous amount of pressure on these children. I think that it's too much to take for most kids at that age and the other thing is maybe some of them are not that smart and they can't take the medical degree or law degree. (Vivian: they're not cut out for it) Yeah, we have to realize there's nothing wrong with some guy who did fairly well in school but he pushed himself to be the best he could be but he ended up being... I don't know in the army or ended up running a video shop. But he's doing well and he's making a bit of money he's doing what he enjoys. We put too much thing on this, you know, you've got to make this much money, you've got to have this status in society.
Vivian: There are people that are satisfied in the sector that they're in and earning the amount that they are earning and living the life that they are they are maybe people that are raised from, you know, filthy rich families that may be happy just, you know, working in an art studio creating their own, you know, pieces of art. Whereas someone from the streets wants a high education and wants to come out of the best schools so that they can you know do the best they can.
Bow: People respond to different ways of learning too, some people learn from experience thing from a hands on thing, some people learn from visual things, some people learn from listening to things, some people learn from reading.
Vivian: But the little kids' point was father mother why can't you accept the fact that I am trying my best and I'm gonna try to (Daisy: And this is my best) right, and continue trying my best but this is probably, you know, it's not saying hey you're dumb or anything...but this is just as far as he goes and maybe it's time to look elsewhere or just be satisfied with what he is doing.
Daisy: This is what I can do for you and I think that's the problem his parents and society is just putting way too much pressure on people. Even my father you know I my entire high school even from elementary school I took music classes and I want to be a musician. And I even had an invitation for an audition at the Conservatorium of music which is like a once in a lifetime of opportunity. It doesn't happen to a lot of people but my father said "No way, you're going to university you're gonna study economics" and I ended up doing that because I felt pressured by him stayed there for a year and a half and bombed out completely and it took me five years to go back to university and do what I was interested in which happened to be English Literature. But I was pressured into doing that and I failed because I was not happy. And I think inevitably all of these children are going to fail or grow up with incredible complexes that their parents have given them. They're not going to be healthy.